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The House of David Strengthened
Now Athere was a long war between the house of Saul and the house of David; and David grew steadily stronger, but the house of Saul grew weaker continually.
ASons were born to David at Hebron: his firstborn was Amnon, by BAhinoam the Jezreelitess; and his second, Chileab, by Abigail the 1widow of Nabal the Carmelite; and the third, Absalom the son of AMaacah, the daughter of Talmai, king of BGeshur; and the fourth, AAdonijah the son of Haggith; and the fifth, Shephatiah the son of Abital; and the sixth, Ithream, by David’s wife Eglah. These were born to David at Hebron.
Abner Joins David
It came about while there was war between the house of Saul and the house of David that AAbner was making himself strong in the house of Saul. Now Saul had a concubine whose name was ARizpah, the daughter of Aiah; and 1Ish-bosheth said to Abner, “Why have you gone in to my father’s concubine?” Then Abner was very angry over the words of Ish-bosheth and said, “AAm I a dog’s head that belongs to Judah? Today I show kindness to the house of Saul your father, to his brothers and to his friends, and have not delivered you into the hands of David; and yet today you charge me with a guilt concerning the woman. AMay God do so to Abner, and more also, if Bas the Lord has sworn to David, I do not accomplish this for him, 10  Ato transfer the kingdom from the house of Saul and to establish the throne of David over Israel and over Judah, Bfrom Dan even to Beersheba.” 11 And he could no longer answer Abner a word, because he was afraid of him.
12 Then Abner sent messengers to David in his place, saying, “Whose is the land? Make your covenant with me, and behold, my hand shall be with you to bring all Israel over to you.” 13 He said, “Good! I will make a covenant with you, but I demand one thing of you, 1namely, Ayou shall not see my face unless you Bfirst bring Michal, Saul’s daughter, when you come to see 2me.” 14 So David sent messengers to Ish-bosheth, Saul’s son, saying, “Give me my wife Michal, to whom I was betrothed Afor a hundred foreskins of the Philistines.” 15  Ish-bosheth sent and took her from her husband, from 1Paltiel the son of Laish. 16 But her husband went with her, weeping as he went, and followed her as far as ABahurim. Then Abner said to him, “Go, return.” So he returned.
17 Now Abner had 1consultation with Athe elders of Israel, saying, “In times past you were seeking for David to be king over you. 18  Now then, do it! For the Lord has spoken of David, saying, ‘ABy the hand of My servant David 1I will save My people Israel from the hand of the Philistines and from the hand of all their enemies.’ ” 19  Abner also spoke in the hearing of Benjamin; and in addition Abner went to speak in the hearing of David in Hebron all that seemed good to Israel and to Athe whole house of Benjamin.
20 Then Abner and twenty men with him came to David at Hebron. And David made a feast for Abner and the men who were with him. 21  Abner said to David, “Let me arise and go and Agather all Israel to my lord the king, that they may make a covenant with you, and that Byou may be king over all that your soul desires.” So David sent Abner away, and he went in peace.
22 And behold, Athe servants of David and Joab came from a raid and brought much spoil with them; but Abner was not with David in Hebron, for he had sent him away, and he had gone in peace. 23 When Joab and all the army that was with him arrived, they told Joab, saying, “Abner the son of Ner came to the king, and he has sent him away, and he has gone in peace.” 24 Then Joab came to the king and said, “What have you done? Behold, Abner came to you; why then have you sent him away and he is already gone? 25 You know Abner the son of Ner, that he came to deceive you and to learn of Ayour going out and coming in and to find out all that you are doing.”
Joab Murders Abner
26 When Joab came out from David, he sent messengers after Abner, and they brought him back from the well of Sirah; but David did not know it. 27 So when Abner returned to Hebron, Joab took him aside into the middle of the gate to speak with him privately, and there Ahe struck him in the belly so that he died on account of the blood of Asahel his brother. 28  Afterward when David heard it, he said, “I and my kingdom are innocent before the Lord forever of the blood of Abner the son of Ner. 29  AMay it 1fall on the head of Joab and on all his father’s house; and may there not fail from the house of Joab Bone who has a discharge, or who is a leper, or who takes hold of a distaff, or who falls by the sword, or who lacks bread.” 30 So Joab and Abishai his brother killed Abner Abecause he had put their brother Asahel to death in the battle at Gibeon.
David Mourns Abner
31 Then David said to Joab and to all the people who were with him, “ATear your clothes and gird on sackcloth and lament before Abner.” And King David walked behind the bier. 32 Thus they buried Abner in Hebron; and the king lifted up his voice and wept at Athe grave of Abner, and all the people wept. 33  AThe king chanted a lament for Abner and said,
“Should Abner die as a fool dies?
34 “Your hands were not bound, nor your feet put in fetters;
As one falls before the 1wicked, you have fallen.”
And all the people wept again over him. 35 Then all the people came Ato 1persuade David to eat bread while it was still day; but David vowed, saying, “BMay God do so to me, and more also, if I taste bread or anything else Cbefore the sun goes down.” 36 Now all the people took note of it, and it 1pleased them, just as everything the king did 2pleased all the people. 37 So all the people and all Israel understood that day that it had not been the will of the king to put Abner the son of Ner to death. 38 Then the king said to his servants, “Do you not know that a prince and a great man has fallen this day in Israel? 39 I am Aweak today, though anointed king; and these men Bthe sons of Zeruiah are too difficult for me. CMay the Lord repay the evildoer according to his evil.”
A 3:1 1 Kin 14:30; Ps 46:9 A 3:2 1 Chr 3:1-3 B 3:2 1 Sam 25:42, 43 1 3:3 Lit wife A 3:3 1 Sam 27:8; 1 Chr 3:2 B 3:3 2 Sam 14:32; 15:8 A 3:4 1 Kin 1:5 A 3:6 2 Sam 2:8, 9 A 3:7 2 Sam 21:8-11 1 3:7 So some ancient mss and versions; M.T. he A 3:8 1 Sam 24:14; 2 Sam 9:8 A 3:9 1 Kin 19:2 B 3:9 1 Sam 15:28 A 3:10 1 Sam 15:28 B 3:10 1 Sam 3:20 1 3:13 Lit saying A 3:13 Gen 43:3 B 3:13 1 Sam 18:20; 19:11 2 3:13 Lit my face A 3:14 1 Sam 18:25, 27 1 3:15 In 1 Sam 25:44, Palti A 3:16 2 Sam 16:5; 19:16 1 3:17 Lit a word A 3:17 1 Sam 8:4 A 3:18 1 Sam 9:16; 15:28 1 3:18 So many ancient mss and versions; M.T. he A 3:19 1 Sam 10:20, 21; 1 Chr 12:29 A 3:21 2 Sam 3:10, 12 B 3:21 1 Kin 11:37 A 3:22 1 Sam 27:8 A 3:25 Deut 28:6; 1 Sam 29:6; Is 37:28 A 3:27 2 Sam 2:23; 20:9, 10; 1 Kin 2:5 A 3:29 Deut 21:6-9; 1 Kin 2:31-33 1 3:29 Lit whirl B 3:29 Lev 13:46 A 3:30 2 Sam 2:23 A 3:31 Gen 37:34; Judg 11:35 A 3:32 Job 31:28, 29; Prov 24:17 A 3:33 2 Sam 1:17; 2 Chr 35:25 1 3:34 Lit sons of wickedness A 3:35 2 Sam 12:17 1 3:35 Lit cause B 3:35 1 Sam 3:17 C 3:35 2 Sam 1:12 1 3:36 Lit was good in their eyes 2 3:36 Lit was good in the eyes of all A 3:39 1 Chr 29:1; 2 Chr 13:7 B 3:39 2 Sam 19:5-7 C 3:39 1 Kin 2:32-34